A Great Way to Start Off the New Year! Just after Christmas, Kecia was given the results from her total body scans. As you remember, the three spots on the brain had been down sized to just two spots at her last scan. Well God has down sized again as only one remains! Every inch of her body was checked and no new cancer can be detected anywhere. They found that the severe pain she continues to have in her lower back is not due to deterioration of the bone due to cancer as they had feared, but a slipped disc instead. She is scheduled to see a spine specialist this next week to see if it will need surgery or if it can be fixed otherwise. This is serious, I suppose, but Kecia is so thankful its a "normal" injury and not a sign that cancer is eating away at her bones. So she was very happy with the results. They did find that she has a slightly irregular heart beat (beating slower than it should be) but he is not overly concerned. Based on statistics, the cancer was supposed to have killed her by now, and if it hadn't, the damage that the chemo did to her organs should have. Just another reminder that God has certainly placed His hand of protection over her! Her doctor does want to have a specialist look at that too just so they can keep a close watch on it, but he assured her it is nothing to worry about at this point.



AND.....if that's not enough.....God shows Himself to Jeanie (Kecia's mom) once again. It all began a few months ago when both Jeanie and Kecia fell into a pretty serious depression. Kecia did nothing but go to treatments, sleep and get sick. She felt horrible every single day and though tests said her body was getting better, I was feeling worse. She started asking "If it's going to be like this then what's the point?" She wasn't able to go to church, be uplifted at her Bible study, or hang out with friends or family. She was falling into a deep dispair and noone knew how to help her. Seeing Kecia so miserable and being helpless to change anything for her, left Jeanie deeply depressed. To add to their downward spiral, both of them struggled with guilt over the belief that "if they really trusted God they wouldn't feel this way." Jeanie started praying that God would send a friend to Kecia. It would have to be someone special because Kecia can't really go anywhere or do anything fun. This friend would have to be okay just hanging around the house and it would have to be someone Kecia was very comfortable with because she's funny about people seeing her when she's down and out. For about a week she prayed everyday not even knowing who, exactly, she was praying would come. Then...last week after infusion, Jeanie suggested they stop by one of their favorite stores for a few minutes just to get Kecia out of the house. Kecia didn't feel like going but said she would (just to get Jeanie out of the house). At the last minute, Jeanie said "I could tell Kecia really wasn't feel very good so I suggested we go another time." Kecia was relieved and they headed home. Just a few minutes later a car pulled into the drive and three women got out. Jeanie assumed they had the wrong house. I guess she forgot that she had specifically asked God to send Kecia a friend. And not just any friend. Gina and Kecia had been best friends all through elementary school. Jeanie worked with Gina's mom and the girls spend weekends and summers together. If Gina was staying with Kecia it was not a bit unusual for both girls to come spend a few nights over at my house too. She was just extended family as far as we were concerned. The moms (Jeanie and Elva) were best friends too. And so much fun to be around. When these two ladies got together there was always so much laughter Im amazed they ever got any work done! Anyway, Gina is EXACTLY the kind of friend Jeanie had been praying for. Gina and her family had no idea that Kecia had cancer and were in complete shock when Jeanie told them. They explained that they had come by 2 other times in the past year but noone had been home. Jeanie too had tried to contact them, but they had moved, gotten new numbers and remarried since they had lost touch. It occured to Jeanie that if they had gone to the store as she had planned, they would have missed each other again. When Jeanie called to tell me this story she was crying. She said "I just can't believe that I ever doubt God. EVERY SINGLE TIME I have asked Him for something he has delivered it." She started listing things for me like...the time she asked Him to get them to the right surgeon and then give them a sign that it was the right one. Not only did He get them to Dr Ladely, but she walks in WITH THE LOST INFORMATION Kecia needed and said "I just happen to have this file on you Kecia because that procedure you had done TEN YEARS ago was done by my partner...so we have everything we need. If that wasn't enough, she quoted to them something very specific Jeanie had been saying in her prayers the night before. A few months ago Kecia was told there was probably going to be a 6 month lapse in her health care coverage. The people from long term disability said she'd probably have to go on COBRA but she was gonna end up paying out of pocket for all her medications. That would have been literally thousands of dollars per month. They expected it too take 4-6 months for her paperwork to be approved. We all prayed about it and God came through. The next to last day of the month, her paperwork was appoved. Not ONE SINGLE DAY did she have to miss medication or pay out of pocket. And now, He sends Kecia the exact friend she needs just when she needs it most! If that's not enough, He sent Elva for Jeanie because He knew she needed a friend too! So her prayer wasn't just answered, it was answered two fold!! It's easy to believe that God cares about big stuff like life and death, sickness and war. But He reminded Jeanie and Kecia that He cares about the little stuff (that sometimes ends up being more important than we realize) too. He cares about friends, and car payments, and medical bills. He cares about the house we move to and the schools our kids attend. I often wonder if Kecia REALLY knows how special God's plan for her is. We are so excited to be able to share this great story with all of you who pray so faithfully for Kecia and our family. Our prayers are heard and answered at every turn! Thank you for walking this out with us. Now go and make all your little bitty prayers, that you thought weren't important enough to ask for, known. Because you serve a Great Big God who cares about even your little bitty requests! HAPPY 2011 from the Snyder/Rezaie Family

11-2-10 FINALLY, some GREAT news to share! At Kecia's visit with her primary oncologist she learned that God is still working miracles for her. As you know, she has been doing tests to determine the amount of damage that the chemo is doing on her organs. It's not one big test, but rather a test for the heart one day, the lungs another and so on....Her doctor came in and apologized that he had not reviewed the report on her bones yet as it had been a hectic morning. They looked over it together. He looked shocked and reread it several times before saying "well Kecia...your tests reveal that your bones don't look any different that a normal persons bones" He reminded her that its not really possible to have cancer in your bones and then kill it with 3 times the amount of poison that is given to most people and then have no visible signs of the damage! He can still see the scars from her cancer but even that bone marrow is strong. Kecia thanked him profusely and said that he and God had saved her life. Then, her doctor who is not a professed believer stated "Kecia, you are the poster child for miraculous healing". Even he admitted that science can do amazing things, but that in Kecia's case, medicine could not take the praise for her healing! This certainly does not mean that her battle with cancer is over, but it is one more confirmation that God does want to heal Kecia. How long this road is going to take we can't even begin to guess. But she is NOT going through this alone and I believe God has big plans for Kecia. I can't wait until she's healthy enough to see exactly what that is!

10-26-10 Kecia's visit with the doctor on Thursday went well. He confirmed what the nurse had already said...there are no new tumors and no new growth on the little ones at the base of her brain. Still can't tell for sure if those are dead (and the spots are just the scars) or if they are still very small active cancer spots. The only way to know for sure is to do a biopsy and they wont do that due to its location and the fact that messing with this type of cancer usually makes it spread like crazy. He believes it is just the scar but either way there is no new growth. So praise God for that!! She will have alot of tests run over the next few weeks to test her organs and see how much damage the chemo has done to them. Based on how much poison has been pumped into her body to fight the cancer, it is a miracle that her organs arent shutting down. I have been praying against that almost from the beginning so I am not expecting bad news in this area. It is obvious that God has been protecting her organs because to date she has had zero issues with them being damaged by the chemo. Unbelievable, if you ask me! These tests will be done a little one day and more on another. The first one is testing her heart but I don't know when. Next week I think. Will let you know when I hear something.

Kecia said she just got a call from the nurse letting her know that the scans look good. She doesn't have any details like size or number of tumors but Kecia will get all of that at her meeting with the doctor on Thursday. Thank you all for praying for her!

I forgot to ask this in my last post....How would you all like to hear from Kecia herself? I've been thinking...she isn't working now, and since there are no big activities to update on like surgeries, blood counts, life threatening infections etc. I thought maybe she could update us on the more personal side so that everyone will know better how to pray for her. I haven't mentioned it to her yet, but I've been thinking about it for a long time. Kecia is very lonely and feels completely separated from everyone because she never feels good enough to go out or have visitors. If the majority think it's a good idea, I will present it to her and encourage her to reach out to those who care so much for her, in person.

Kecia is asking for prayer in the way of faith and courage. She was supposed to have a brain scan this week but she was too ill to go. She says that alot of it was that she was just so nervous that they would find her brain covered with cancer that she literally made herself sick with worry. She has rescheduled the scans for the 11th and is asking that we pray from her mental and spiritual strength right now. Of course she is still asking for prayer that the scans will be cancer free too. She desperatly wants to be able to lower her doses of chemo so that she can feel better and start working again. As it is now, she has a very low quality of life and is looking forward to feeling better. Her doctor doesn't want to stop the aggressive treatments until she has gone a year with clear scans so if this one is clear it will be the 2nd of 5 needed to lower her doses!

9-8-10 Kecia has asked me to update everyone and ask for prayer in a specific area. In light of the recent conversation with her doctor, Kecia is feeling very down and discouraged. The thought of going on in this same miserable manner that she has been for the last year is overwhelming her. She wrestles with the idea of just stopping meds and going out gracefully. She doesn't have peace about that though and so would find it anything but "graceful". This past year has been far worse that the first year of her fight. The thought of doing it for at least another year is more than she can handle right now. Please pray that God will give her wisdom on how to move forward and that the wisdom with come with peace!